Subscriber Account active since. In theory, having sex is easy. You find someone you like, make sure that person likes you too, and consensually have at it. But in reality, sex often comes along with more complications than many people would think. And some of these complications have much to do with what a person does before sex, rather than just during sex. But just what, exactly, are those things? If you want to have an orgasm while you're having sex, it's a good idea to figure out what actually makes you have an orgasm.

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How do you get ready for sex? I mean, I normally do nothing. I just start having sex.