Click here to get it. Quick Warning: While this tutorial video is quite distressing, it will teach you how to make your man scream with pleasure and become sexually addicted to you. It is fairly normal to bleed when you have sex the first time and even a few times after that, but this is usually due to vaginal tearing. Not every woman even has a hymen, and not everyone bleeds or finds sex uncomfortable the first time. Some women are just dryer than others, and some women are naturally wetter. Vaginal trauma refers to any of the damage a vagina can sustain.